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STRESS MANAGEMENT

Signs of Stress and Imbalance

How To Break Through Fear in Turbulent Times

What is Stress?

Solving Problems in a High-Stress Environment

Break Through Self-Doubt & Fear

Let's Get Physical

Holiday Stress Hotspots

Make 2004 your Year of Organization

Holiday Stress Hotspots

Manage Stress by Stopping Obsessive or Unwanted Thoughts

Meditate Stress Away

Taking Stress for a Ride

3 Strategies to Reduce Stress

Cleaning Up

Stress; Control It, Change It or Let It Go!

Substance Abuse

The Courage to Feel Bad

The Challenge of Change

Tips for Managing Holiday Madness

Modern Day Stressors: What Stress Looks Like in the 21st Century

The Life Juggle: How to Find Lifework Balance

New Year's Resolutions

 

CHANGE

The Questions Leaders Should Ask Themselves about Change

The Top Ten Ways to Manage People through Change

Understanding Change

The Challenge of Change

 

RUNNING A BUSINESS

Be Heard. Be Strong. Be Effective. How to Deliver Impressive Presentations

Getting Started in the Speaking Business: Answers to Burning Questions

What Entrepreneurs Need to Know to be Successful

How to Create and Maintain Culture as You Grow

Recruitment and Retention of Diverse Candidates

 

DIVERSITY

A Passion for Diversity

Traits of a Diverse Organization

Simma's Holiday Diversity Q and A

How to Go from Eggshell Walking to Multicultural Festivity Making

Are You Wasting Your Money on Diversity Training?

Interview Bias: Overcoming the Silent Forces Working Against You

How to Help LGBT Employees Help Your Organization Grow

How to Integrate Diversity Into Your Business Strategy

Diversity Benefits Organizations and Communities

Diversity Fast Facts

How to Integrate Diversity

10 PC Tips for Communicating with a Diverse Audience

Are You Truly Successful?

Interviewing Employees Who Stay

Wage and Position Disparity Across Gender

What Every Consultant Needs to Know About Diversity Consulting and Training

Diversity Competency Assessment

Recruitment and Retention of Diverse Candidates

Understanding Diversity Dialogues

Dialogue as a Communication Tool Amongst Diverse Groups of People

Communicating across Generations in the Workplace

Simma & Kate's Strategies for Cross-Generational Relationship Building

Valuing Diversity during the Holidays

 

COMMUNICATION

Understanding Dialogue: A Q&A on the benefits of dialogue

Dialogue as a Communication Tool

Communication with Concern

Helping Others Deal with Loss

10 PC Tips for Communicating with a Diverse Audience

Tips for Better Communication Between Men and Women in the Workplace

Understanding Diversity Dialogues

Dialogue as a Communication Tool Amongst Diverse Groups of People

Simma & Kate's Strategies for Cross-Generational Relationship Building

Web Site Tips

 

GENDER COMMUNICATION

Differences in Male and Female Communication Styles

Gender Communications Differences and Strategies

Wage and Position Disparity across Gender

Tips for Better Communication between Men and Women in the Workplace

 

WORK/LIFE BALANCE

Life/Work Balance in the Real World

New Year's Resolutions: A New Approach?

Working with Loved Ones: Leverage Potential and Avoid Pitfalls

Modern Day Stressors: What Stress Looks Like in the 21st Century

The Life Juggle: How to Find Lifework Balance

 

RESTAURANT & HOSPITALITY

All in the Family

Are You Truly Successful?

How to Create and Maintain the Culture of Your Restaurants

Let's Get Physical

Meditate Stress Away

Taking Stress for a Ride

The Challenge of Change

3 Strategies to Reduce Stress

Cleaning Up Substance Abuse

 

FEAR & SELF-DOUBT

Break Through Self-Doubt & Fear

Substance Abuse

The Courage to Feel Bad

Three Strategies to Reduce Stress

Whether its serving the customer, training employees or working long hours, the restaurant industry can be very stressful. Having to create new menu items, deal with investors, and stay ahead of the competition can take its toll on relationships and health.

Even though your work can be challenging and exciting you may still experience stress symptoms such as headaches, neck and back aches, and exhaustion.

In order to take care of yourself, you need to master three strategies: 1 - learn to relax; 2 -control, change or let go of things you canât control; 3- create time to do things you enjoy
 


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  1. Learn to relax If you start the day stressed, you will be stressed all day. Balanced breathing, however, can keep you calm all day and help you will sleep better at night. Balanced breathing also improves health and prevents headaches, backaches and stomach problems.
      Balanced Breathing
    • Find a quiet place with no interruptions for ten minutes.
    • Get comfortable.
    • Close your eyes and take a deep breath.
    • Feel your breath go down through your chest.
    • Then, as you breathe out, say the word ăoneä to yourself.
    Repeat this breathing pattern for at least five minutes. Remember, the more time you practice, the more relaxed youâll get.

  2. Use the Control, Change, or Let Go Process- Many people spend time trying to control things they have no control over. The frustration this causes leaves no time or energy to control the things they can control. Donât waste time on worrying and obsessing. When you are stressed out, determine whether you can control the situation, or change it. If you canât, learn to let go.

    Learning to let go is a process you can learn. Use self -talk to you remind yourself you canât control other people, places and things. However, by controlling your thoughts, you can control your emotions, which can bring your stress level down.

    For example, you canât control the weather. If business is slow because of weather, worrying is a waste of time. Instead, work out a way to increase business to make up the loss. Maybe you can run a 2-for-1 special or offer a free dessert to increase traffic.

    If you create a new menu item, you canât control whether someone likes it or not. If people donât order it, you can change it or replace it.

  3. Create time to do the things you enjoy. Most people fill their time with work related or ăhave toä activities, and leave no time for themselves. This contributes to burn-out, physical exhaustion, and loss of purpose., which leads to lower productivity. Make a date with yourself in your planner. If you donât commit in advance it wonât happen. Remind yourself that by doing things you enjoy, you will get more work done, be more creative, and have more energy to be with friends and family.

By practicing the art of balanced breathing, using the control, change and let go process, and taking time to do the things you enjoy, you can be more effective in leading your employees, satisfying your customers, and successfully handling daily and crisis problems.


Here are some other ways that four successful people in the food service business manage their stress.

Tony Feicco Jr., president of Mianos Pasta Express headquartered in southern California, doesnât bring his work issues home. He creates boundaries between his work life and home life, and makes sure he allocates time to pursue his hobby; caring for his cactus garden.

Alice Eliot, president of executive search firm Alice Elliot Assoc. which specializes within the Hospitality and Foodservice industry lets go of work stress by empowering others thru delegation, and giving them every opportunity to improve themselves. Surrounding herself with outstanding people means she doesnât have to do everything herself. Even with running eight offices across the country, Elliot takes time to jog four times a week.

Deborah Hollis, Exec. VP of Shoneys doesnât go into the office on Saturdays and Sundays. While some people donât want to take work home, she prefers that to staying late in the office. She can be with her family and have more control of her time.. ăExercise, and include family and personal time in your daily schedule,ä Hollis advises.

Frank Guidara, CEO of Wolfgang Puck Foods, takes time with his family and integrates work into his whole life. His hobby is even food related; wine tasting. Guidara exercises every day, using his treadmill and stretching and uses exercise time to work through problems, find solutions , and clear his mind.

 


Simma Lieberman works with people and organizations to create environments where people can do their best work. She specializes in diversity, gender communications, life-work balance and stress, and acquiring and retaining new customers.

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