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STRESS MANAGEMENT

Signs of Stress and Imbalance

How To Break Through Fear in Turbulent Times

What is Stress?

Solving Problems in a High-Stress Environment

Break Through Self-Doubt & Fear

Let's Get Physical

Holiday Stress Hotspots

Make 2004 your Year of Organization

Holiday Stress Hotspots

Manage Stress by Stopping Obsessive or Unwanted Thoughts

Meditate Stress Away

Taking Stress for a Ride

3 Strategies to Reduce Stress

Cleaning Up

Stress; Control It, Change It or Let It Go!

Substance Abuse

The Courage to Feel Bad

The Challenge of Change

Tips for Managing Holiday Madness

Modern Day Stressors: What Stress Looks Like in the 21st Century

The Life Juggle: How to Find Lifework Balance

New Year's Resolutions

 

CHANGE

The Questions Leaders Should Ask Themselves about Change

The Top Ten Ways to Manage People through Change

Understanding Change

The Challenge of Change

 

RUNNING A BUSINESS

Be Heard. Be Strong. Be Effective. How to Deliver Impressive Presentations

Getting Started in the Speaking Business: Answers to Burning Questions

What Entrepreneurs Need to Know to be Successful

How to Create and Maintain Culture as You Grow

Recruitment and Retention of Diverse Candidates

 

DIVERSITY

A Passion for Diversity

Traits of a Diverse Organization

Simma's Holiday Diversity Q and A

How to Go from Eggshell Walking to Multicultural Festivity Making

Are You Wasting Your Money on Diversity Training?

Interview Bias: Overcoming the Silent Forces Working Against You

How to Help LGBT Employees Help Your Organization Grow

How to Integrate Diversity Into Your Business Strategy

Diversity Benefits Organizations and Communities

Diversity Fast Facts

How to Integrate Diversity

10 PC Tips for Communicating with a Diverse Audience

Are You Truly Successful?

Interviewing Employees Who Stay

Wage and Position Disparity Across Gender

What Every Consultant Needs to Know About Diversity Consulting and Training

Diversity Competency Assessment

Recruitment and Retention of Diverse Candidates

Understanding Diversity Dialogues

Dialogue as a Communication Tool Amongst Diverse Groups of People

Communicating across Generations in the Workplace

Simma & Kate's Strategies for Cross-Generational Relationship Building

Valuing Diversity during the Holidays

 

COMMUNICATION

Understanding Dialogue: A Q&A on the benefits of dialogue

Dialogue as a Communication Tool

Communication with Concern

Helping Others Deal with Loss

10 PC Tips for Communicating with a Diverse Audience

Tips for Better Communication Between Men and Women in the Workplace

Understanding Diversity Dialogues

Dialogue as a Communication Tool Amongst Diverse Groups of People

Simma & Kate's Strategies for Cross-Generational Relationship Building

Web Site Tips

 

GENDER COMMUNICATION

Differences in Male and Female Communication Styles

Gender Communications Differences and Strategies

Wage and Position Disparity across Gender

Tips for Better Communication between Men and Women in the Workplace

 

WORK/LIFE BALANCE

Life/Work Balance in the Real World

New Year's Resolutions: A New Approach?

Working with Loved Ones: Leverage Potential and Avoid Pitfalls

Modern Day Stressors: What Stress Looks Like in the 21st Century

The Life Juggle: How to Find Lifework Balance

 

RESTAURANT & HOSPITALITY

All in the Family

Are You Truly Successful?

How to Create and Maintain the Culture of Your Restaurants

Let's Get Physical

Meditate Stress Away

Taking Stress for a Ride

The Challenge of Change

3 Strategies to Reduce Stress

Cleaning Up Substance Abuse

 

FEAR & SELF-DOUBT

Break Through Self-Doubt & Fear

Substance Abuse

The Courage to Feel Bad

Getting Started in the Speaking Business:
Answers to The Burning Questions

In the following Q&A format, Simma reveals some of her tried and tested methods for successfully marketing and growing her speaking business.

What is my first step?
Pick a topic- don't just say you'll speak on anything. Unless you are a famous celebrity, most people won't be interested in hearing you speak on anything. Anything is a wide range from fixing broken sinks, to how to make a million dollars in one day.

How do I pick a topic?
It depends on your reason for speaking. If you want to make money, you need to pick a topic that will sell. Investigate the market, and determine how your topic relates to specific audiences. If you don't care about money, but simply love to speak, pick a topic that interests you and don't worry if there is an audience or not. It can be something as simple as How to Pick the Best Kind of Cardboard Boxes for Moving. If you want to speak on a topic you love and make money make sure there is a market for your topic and pursue that market. Talk to other speakers (but make sure you talk to more than one), read business publications to check out current topics, and call targeted organizations to determine relevant issues. In any case you need to make sure you speak on a topic that you know.

How do I become an expert?
Read trade magazines, books, information from the internet and interview people who have information. Read publications that are current. If you speak about music, and you tell people to go out and buy 45RPM records, chances are you are out of date.

How do I get jobs?
Make a list of everyone you know and any organization you have ever been affiliated with. Contact the people and groups on your list and ask for referrals and suggestions of places to speak. Describe your topic and how it can benefit listeners. Ask organizations if you can speak at their meetings. Before you actually speak, record yourself. If you can stand listening to yourself and don't fall asleep while you listen you are ready to have an audience. Contact the service clubs like Rotary, and any trade or professional organizations and offer to speak for them.

What if they have no money to pay me?
In the beginning you may have to speak for free, but don't worry because many of these organizations will give you a rubber chicken lunch or dinner and that's one meal you don't have to pay for. The purpose of speaking anywhere and for free is to sharpen your speaking skills, get your name out and practice new material. That way if you are in need of a lot of practice or some people are bored they can't ask for their money back.

How do I ask for money?
You can find out if they have money by asking if they have a budget to pay speakers or an honorarium. If they offer you more money than you expect, don't let them know it. Just be happy you got it. Talk to other speakers about fees and how to get comfortable charging what you are worth.

How do I set my rates?
Again talk to other speakers to help you determine your fee. Whatever you do, don't suggest to the client that they should pay you what they think you deserve after they have listened to you.

What kind of marketing materials do I need, and how much should I spend?
Business cards and a presentation kit are essentials and a video is always helpful if you are doing keynotes. It needs to be a video of you speaking. A video of your testimonial at your last birthday party will not work. Once you know what you are doing, you need a website. Don't have one that is always under construction, or one that has fancy gadgets on it that takes an hour to load. No one is that interested in you that they can wait.

Tips for marketing when you have no budget
Get published. Write and submit magazine articles (on your speaking topic). People read magazines and you will get good exposure.

Volunteer on committees for organizations where you want exposure (you will get more exposure if you volunteer to MC an event, facilitate a meeting, or work on PR as opposed to volunteering to get supplies and appetizers at Costco.)

When you are marketing yourself, include any references to:

  • Magazine articles by you (especially if they are on your topic), and people read them
  • Places where you are quoted
  • On-line publications with your contact info

How do I get a video if I have no money?
Offer to speak at a college or corporation that has an audio-visual department in exchange for being videotaped. Make sure the person behind the camera actually knows how to use it, and tapes you in your finest moments.


Simma Lieberman works with people and organizations to create environments where people can do their best work. She specializes in diversity, gender communications, life-work balance and stress, and acquiring and retaining new customers.

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